Baby in the mall

Crying Kids in the Mall - Not Yours ! Amen...

Gotta feel for those "new parents" or the parents with "that kid" that starts to holler, whine, complain, moan, scream...just as they are headed towards Santa and Mrs. Claus at the local mall. Not to worry mom and dad, for those of us who have had kids...we've been there done that. Somehow Santa usually, most times, gets that child back under control once they approach the big lad in the red suit. Enjoy the mall and more importantly enjoy those kids - no matter what the mood beholds.

The next post of Holiday Awesome that I am drawing from Neil Pasricha's "Book of (Holiday) Awesome is all about the crying kids in the mall. Of course, the awesomeness that he points to is that the kid is not yours.

Calling on all parents. Don't feel bad about the child crying in the mall. Those of us that are parents can quickly tell you that we've been there and done that. Don't be embarrassed, don't rush off with the child, don't hide in the washroom until soothers are in place. Just let your child wail away until consoled and carry on with your Christmas or Holiday shopping.

The fact is you are probably bringing joy to many of us that have fond memories of our own children at that age. I do recall so many seniors that would have commented: "I remember those years of joy". I know, I know, that moment of wailing in the mall is not a current moment of joy for the current parent. However, the point I'm making is that those around you are likely not as fussed or embarrassed as you being the parent. We all sympathize and have a little smile inside to share with you.

And Santa's lap...always good for a loud wail now and again...smiles.

@FergDevins


Light Them Up

Hard to believe in Toronto of putting up the lights when we still have some many leaves on the trees. Gosh, "the old oak tree" in the neighbors' back yard will likely have it's leaves until the new year. With Santa's parade next weekend in Toronto, it reminds me that I usually have the lights up by now...but that weekend is usually last call for me. I'm ready. Now just need to get some boughs for the Christmas bells to be hung at the front door. Ho Ho Ho.

One of my most favourite tasks of the holiday season is to put the lights up on the trees outside. In recent years the task has become quite enjoyable, as our global warming seems to have extended autumn and allowed for fairly mild weather for stringing the lights. One custom that I have adopted is to place the lights on the outdoor trees the weekend of the Toronto Santa Claus Parade. As I reviewed the situation today, I think that my lilac bushes may finally have shed their leaves for Sunday's placement.

Neil Pasricha's reference to this task is on page 7 of his "Book of (Holiday) Awesome" . He refers to the awesomeness being the fact that you are "plugging in your Christmas lights from last year and having them all work". I must admit that up until last year, this was always an issue for me. I was a late convert to the new LED light systems. The original old style lights were far more fragile and breakable than the new LED versions. The LED versions are also much easier to string and remove for storage as well.

I am sure that I will still be faced with the surprise of half strings undone when I go to light up the indoor lights. I still have lights from many years of adding strings to the indoor tree. Hey!  Maybe this year is the year that we should finally make the transition to LED lights for the indoor tree as well. Has anyone made this transition and have feedback on that front? Does the tree glisten with the new as well as the old light systems?

While the weather is still fairly warm, my suggestion is that you consider installing your outdoor lights this weekend. The rule in our household, as dictated by my dearly beloved better half, is that the lights are allowed to be turned on the day that our neighbours to the south celebrate American Thanksgiving. Thus, Thursday, November 23rd will be the tree lighting at the Devins.

Wishing you all well in your plans for tree lighting this Christmas season. Ho Ho Ho.

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From the Book of (Holiday) Awesome

After responses from readers, family and friends last year, I am going to "re-blog" this series that ties to the work of Neil Pasricha and the Book of Holiday Awesome. Thanks for the inspiration Neil, and for those who enjoyed these posts through 2017. Back due to demand...happy holiday season planning everyone. @fergdevins

The Holiday season

Firstly, for me as a Christian, it is truly the Christmas season. I have also had many Muslim, Jewish and Hindu friends suggest to me that they also look at this coming time of year as the "Christmas Season", with other celebrations of faith and community included. I sometimes find it humorous when companies or individuals try to neutralize the season to be non-faith based. "Holiday Greetings", "Season's Greetings", are often phrases we might here. As a close Muslim friend of mine stated,  "get over it, it is Christmas!". Whatever your faith, it is a time of year to be grateful for all that we have and to work towards greater peace, harmony, and joy amongst all human beings.

 

A Time With Family and Friends

However, regardless of faith, it is a wonderful time of year where family and friends rejoice. I was truly taken by the work of Neil Pasricha and his "Book of (Holiday) Awesome".  As Neil works on his mission to help people live happy lives, his work in this book is certainly a written legacy of happiness.

 

Neil Pasricha's Work

I reached out to Neil last November and asked for his permission to post and share some of the content from his wonderful work throughout the holiday season. He graciously accepted my request. Thanks, Neil! For true joy and guaranteed smiles, check out Neil's works at Amazon.ca.

 

Time for Awesomeness

So, over the next 47 days (commencing November 14th and ending December 31st) I am going to share excerpts from Neil Pasricha's work "The Book of (Holiday) Awesome".

 

I hope that it may warm your hearts and make you think a bit of how you might spread a little Holiday Awesomeness as we wrap up 2017.

 

Here we Go

The first thought of awesomeness from page three of Neil's book is related to "Getting a Christmas card from someone you thought you lost touch with". Realistically, we are all probably a little less involved with the physical handwritten Christmas cards as the years progress. There are so many "online" options to choose from. Many just simply post an electronic message to their "contact list" and email blast away. I'm still a big fan of personalized outreach on special occasions. It is wonderful to share a Christmas message that is personalized so that your networks can relate to you and your family and loved ones at Christmas. However, there truly is nothing like receiving that direct connection from someone you have not heard from in a long time - whether that is a physical greeting card or email.

 

As Neil points out, "life is short and always wavering", thus friendships are worth sustaining, worth investing in, "worth enjoying and worth savoring".

 

So here we go - post one of the season is up and running. Follow more posts via @FergDevins, via The Devins Network on Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn.

 

Through my networks, I hope to add a little spice of happiness, from the inspiration that Neil Pasricha has provided through his work.

 

Have an Awesome Holiday Season everyone !

 

@fergdevins


lest we forget

Lest We Forget

Each year in November as we inch towards the eleventh hour of the eleventh day of the eleventh month of the year; it is wonderful to see the outpouring of gratitude and respect that is given in memory of those who have fought and fallen for our country.

Our veterans from world wars and conflicts where our armed forces have been active have given greatly for Canada. Those who have not returned have made the ultimate sacrifice. Those who have returned have also given greatly, and in many situations face difficulties through injury and resultant ability challenges. Some may also be faced with mental health issues resulting from their service.

November 11th is but one day that marks a time for us to pause, pay respect and be thankful for who we are and what we have in Canada - because of them.

Thanks for wearing your poppy. Thanks for making a donation to assist the families of our fallen.

Sunnybrook Health Sciences Centre in Toronto is home to a major Veterans' hospital. If you help by "raising a flag" you can make a donation in support of our Veterans and the wonderful work that Sunnybrook does.

We have so much to be thankful for. Much of what we have to be thankful for is a result of those who stood for our freedom and democracy and all that we value in Canada as a nation.

Lest We Forget.

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I Survived and now Walking To Fight #BladderCancer

Walk to fight Bladder Cancer

September 23rd I will be walking to fight #bladdercancer in the annual Bladder Cancer Canada Awareness Walk.

I have walked in Kenora for the past three years, my summer residence community and "hometown". As Chair of Bladder Cancer Canada, I thought it was important for me to walk in the largest event in the country and return home to Toronto for the September event.

Toronto Walk

Deanne Puder is doing a masterful job of organizing the Toronto event, along with former supporters of the walk and our Bladder Cancer Canada Co-Founder David Guttman keeping her informed on best practices to date.

Corus Global

I am also delighted that Corus/Global is continuing as our national media partner. Troy Reeb has been our master of ceremonies in Toronto the past few years. Alan Carter of Global News will be taking on emcee responsibilities this year. It is great to have Alan on board and we extend thanks to Corus/Global for their much-valued continued support.

Why Walk?

Why Walk?  As a survivor of #bladdercancer, I was fortunate enough to have found out about Bladder Cancer Canada, very early after my diagnosis. The website offered some great resources, and Tammy Northam, the executive director, was very helpful in getting me started on setting up a fundraising walk in my summer residence of Kenora Ontario.

More than that - Bladder Cancer Canada truly makes a difference in the fight against #bladdercancer. They remain focused on patient support, raising awareness about the disease and funding research.

Earlier this year I became Chair of Bladder Cancer Canada's board of directors. I humbly take on this responsibility after the leadership of Ken Bagshaw and his predecessor Co-Founder of the organization - David Guttman.

I also remain inspired by Jack Moon, David's fellow co-founder, to whom I was referred to when I was "googling" and stumbled across the organization after reaching out to the American organization BCAN and the Inspire network.

By walking, and gaining the support of donors, I know that we will continue to build the impact that we have to provide for patients in the fight against bladder cancer in Canada. We will have more resources to raise awareness. We will have more resources to support our medical advisory and research boards and our Canadian researchers in the pursuit of finding a cure for bladder cancer.

I hope that YOU might consider SUPPORTING ME by joining me to walk in Toronto and/or supporting me by making a donation to my walk effort on my personal page at bccwalk.ca.

Thanks

Thank you for helping me and our volunteer board and patient support team make a real difference in the fight against bladder cancer.


Your Remote Office At the Lake

Hello out there Canada !

I'm re-issuing my "virtual office" blog post on working remotely at the lake - the remote office. I am also including a "video" produced last summer to help you think about how you might plan on working remotely this summer. Cheers to a great start to the month of July. Happy Canada Day long weekend.

VIDEO LINK HERE  

Ah summer...time to set up the virtual office.

A time when families plan to spend more time together with each other, extended families and friends. For many Canadians, it is a time to enjoy that special place known as the "cottage", "camp" or "cabin", depending on of course which part of this vast and magnificent land you might be headed to...the coast - lake - river - countryside - hills or mountains.

For me, that "camp" becomes my summer location and headquarters in Central Canada for the Devins Network. I get a smile on my face just writing that! It's the virtual office.

Even when I was still working full time at Molson Coors, I would make the weekly treck northwards to Kenora from Toronto late on a Thursday night and return on Monday.

Thankfully, I had the benefit of understanding and supportive colleagues and a CEO who knew that I was plugged in and accessible at all times, regardless of my physical location. Ground rules in that regard are critically important to make the model work. Establish that agreement early on so that the context is understood by your team and clients.

The remote or virtual office concept is being adapted and embraced by more and more individuals and businesses. I truly believe in this web-connected network society in which we live, if you've got access to the web, you are on the job; available and in touch.

Obviously, the truth is that virtual office or job locations are not for everyone. If you are an administration type, that requires physical files at your disposal, it's likely the case that you need to be next to those physical files. 

If you are on a production line or supervising production lines or operations, it is likely important that you are physically on the site in case troubleshooting is required.

However, if you can execute your responsibilities and fulfil on your accountabilities online, without requiring a physical presence - you can likely make the virtual office thing happen.

So what does a virtual office look like, feel like ?

DETERMINE THE WORKSPACE

Establishing your physical "workspace" is a critical consideration, in setting up your virtual office. A desk, chair, printer, filing space, office items, mouse, keyboard, clock are all important for your physical set up. Most important is an agreement with your family members of where you locate in their environment. You may have to take a call or examine something online at any point in the day. Having space that will allow for this and not cause friction with the rest of the family is key to happiness for those sharing your newly created office space.

A PHONE

Cell phones allow you to be in touch anywhere anytime as long as you have cell service. I find that more and more folks are leaving the landline behind and moving to cell phone only. Given that most families have plans for each member of the family - it has become the predominant device for contact...voice or text. As a solopreneur my cell phone is my phone for business and travels with me everywhere. Depending on how "remote" you are, you might need to do some research on network availability and service in your area. Most communities and service providers have figured out how to keep their permanent and summer residents connected.

COMPUTER

Hardwired to the net or Wifi will provide you with the connectedness you need to access your work team, clients, suppliers, colleagues, and prospects. If you don't have wifi you may actually have the benefit of a data plan and you can "hotspot" from your phone. Research most accessible and affordable options. Another critical consideration is your "back up". By this, I am referring to a  backup device. I stumbled upon a situation where my computer needed servicing. Having an Apple Mac Book it required being shipped away for several days. Thus, I needed to have a backup laptop, tablet or device.

WIFI

I have struggled year after year with just simply unacceptable wifi service from the local provider. I am now into my second summer with xplornet.com and find them to be outstanding. Currently, I have 20.7 MBPS down and  1.6 MBPS up. I have had better than than through the week.

DOCUMENTS 

Platforms such as dropbox, google drive, box, icloud and or various other clouds allow you to arrange your critical documents for access. You can also share and edit with teams via these platforms. It might take some getting used to but is really slick once you are operating in this space. This will also provide a safe back-up for you with access on any device if your primary computer or lap to go on the fritz.

FACE TO FACE

Facetime for Apple folks, SKYPE for just about anyone and many other video conference platforms like "Go To Meeting" allow you to conduct virtual meetings where you actually do have face to face ability through your computer, tablet or phone device. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and snap chat all have face to face capability as well.

VOICE TO VOICE OR SCREEN SHARING

Plenty of conference call platforms on phones and available today to ensure that you can remain connected and be engaged in meetings whenever that call might be on your calendar. I recommend securing a conference line so that you have it on the ready, rather than having to scramble if in need of convening a call with your team or clients. Join Me is a terrific service to share your screen with others via conference call. Webex or Zoom are also great services.

CONFERENCE ROOMS

Most hotels, and many local businesses offer up their conference space for use by individuals or small businesses. You don't have to look too far before finding something that will suit your needs. This is particularly important if you are need in several hours on a "call". It could be a major inconvenience to your family if you are set up in common space in your abode. Often times there is idle space in summer months in cottage country, the establishment might appreciate a few tweets, Trip Advisor referral or Facebook like or recommendation from you in return.

CALENDAR AND ALARM

Don't fall into a trap of getting distracted with what is going on at your virtual location environment. Have a calendar plan with "notifications" when meetings, calls or assignments are due. Since you are remote, you might sometimes be slightly adrift. Make sure you have a good system in place to stick with your business schedule, when required.

PLAN YOUR WORK WINDOWS

Put a plan in place to lay out your work each day. Rob Hatch at Owner Media has a good process that he talks about in his "work like you're on vacation" course. His suggestion is to lay out your work the night before, plan it, plan the outcomes and schedule that time free of distractions.

MAIL

Canada Post will allow for personal mail being forwarded, or how about having home office send you your mail weekly in a ground courier envelope. Many cottage communities also have local post office box availability. Depending on whether you know your community, or are just renting for the summer - don't just assume that your standard courier will be able to get to you. Talk to locals first. Remember that most cottage country areas do have a day or two delay in reaching you.

BANKING

There are now so many options to bank and complete transactions online. All of the banks and credit unions seem to have set up online banking ease. You can also utilize PayPal as a transaction service to pay online.

FEELING REMOTE AND AWAY FROM INFORMATION

Google it ! YouTube it ! There is no reason for you to feel out of touch if you are connected to the web in your virtual office.

NETWORKING GAPS

Pick your pathway and engage with folks through platforms existing on LinkedIN, Facebook, Twitter and Google + (to just name a few...). If you are remote, you may feel that you are disconnected from people. You can stay in touch through your networks. As part of your plan, you might decide to reach out to a number of people through the week. Drop those into your calendar with a purpose in mind. Check out profiles with your cottage community in their profile. A great twitter search tool for this is Audiense.

DISCIPLINE

Getting your mindset established from the get-go is most critical. Know when you are at "work" and when you are at "leisure". Plan your day, work your plan. Schedule appropriate amount of time for calls, email, social networking. Routine calls or meetings will make for better planning over the longer term. Discipline and planning will make this work with ease. Those early morning sunrises might make for the perfect time to wipe off the morning dew, grab a nice hot coffee, cup of tea, iced drink or smoothie on your deck or dock to check incoming mail and plan your day.

JUST A CALL OR EMAIL AWAY!

The biggest hurdle with establishing a virtual office is you getting your head around the fact that nothing is impossible to get done when you are remote. The other hurdle is getting those that you work with and support comfortable with the fact that you are achieving your goals and accomplishing the work that needs to get done; even though you are not physically at a location. No need to rub it in, but acknowledging accomplishments from your place away is a good reinforcement that the work is getting done.

Get your virtual office established and...enjoy the summer !

VIDEO LINK ALSO HERE - smiles.

@FergDevins @DevinsNetwork


Virgin Islands Heart and Soul - Open For Business

Three couples were fortunate enough to spend some time in the Virgin Islands this past spring. The Virgin Islands Heart and Soul is alive and well. They are truly open for business. Considering that there are 60 US Virgin Islands and 40 British Virgin Islands, the opportunities are simply endless, when pursuing your Atlantic or Caribbean dream sailing vacation.

After the hurricanes of 2017, we were truly re-considering whether we would take our trip at the end of February 2018. We were concerned about the devastation, safety, access and unsure of what might be open for business. Given that all of the major chains seemed to have been shuttered, and remained so - we were fortunate enough to find accommodation in St. Thomas at Olga's Fancy.

Olga's Fancy, a comfortable hotel in St. Thomas US Virgin Islands

To cut a long story of anticipation short, we were delighted upon arriving in St. Thomas to see that the heart and soul of the Virgin Islands were still warm and welcoming. Yes, there were obvious remnants of the damage and devastation. I will not play that down, given the obvious impact that it had on the people of the area. However, not one of them seemed reluctant to give details of their experience. In some ways, I'm sure that it helps to heal some of the sickening memories of damage and loss that they experienced. But their pride and passion for the islands and its hospitality and warmth live on.

After leaving Olga's Fancy, and a long morning coffee with Candy and Eddie, we headed for a wonderful local tour with Romeo to start our day with banana daiquiri's on the mountaintop overlooking Magen's beach. For some in our party as "newcomers" to Saint Thomas most things seemed just wonderful. For those who were returning visitors, it was evident to them the amount of change in the landscape where trees and growth had been hacked away like it had been trimmed with a giant whipper snipper. However, new green growth and colourful blossoms were popping everywhere.

overlooking Magen's Beach

Our Captain and crew (Matt and Casey) aboard the Island R&R based out of Compass Point Marina were quick to welcome us with open arms and hospitality.

We were on our catamaran for eight days. We met so many wonderful people along our journey. We found that so many of the local businesses had laboured for weeks and months on end to be open for business. It was obvious to us that it had been months of hard work and determination to get their businesses back up and running to meet visiting tourists from around the world. Although many of the large chain establishments remained closed as of early March, the locals with Virgin Islands Heart and Soul were bound and determined to return the area to its revered state of beauty, hospitality and seaside pleasures.

With excellent "cell service" in the area, our group had many friends checking in on us. Is that open? Is that still there? Did you see this? Did you go there? Wasnt that spot spectacular? Did you try this? We visited most of the delights that friends had suggested that we see in British and US Virgin Islands. The natural wonders of beaches, hiking paths, seaside coves and snorkelling were just spectacular. Where reconstruction was complete, the facilities were brand new and in perfect working order.

To help with your Virgin Islands trip planning, I thought I'd highlight some of the sites and places we visited, so that you can rest assured that they will be ready willing and able to welcome you on your upcoming visit to the Virgin Islands. The Virgin Islands heart and soul is alive and well and open for business.

Anegada - Cow Wreck Beach - Anne's place

Highlights of our trip to the Virgin Islands March 2018

Meeting our crew for the week we stopped in at the Dive Bar at Compass point Marina. Great drinks and hospitality abound.

We dined at XO Bistro in Red Hook and had nightcaps at Duffy's Love Shack - great live music.

First stop after leaving Compass Point Marina was Great St. James Island for afternoon snorkelling and the unique Pizza Pi "floating pizzeria".

At Jost Van Dyke the "bubbly pool" was a wonderful natural phenom. Don't go too close to the edge !

Customs "check in" for the UK on Jost Van Dyke - we never made it to Foxy's but heard it is spectacular.

In White Bay we were delighted with the famous Soggy Dollar Bar and Coco Loco's Beach Bar.

White Bay at Guana Island was just a most spectacular "walk on the beach".

At Trellis Bay we were truly fortunate to be there for the Full Moon Party - plan your visit around the moon.

We had a quick stop at Leverick Bay at Virgin Gorda. A beautiful marina and resort.

We met a wonderful and inspiring guide whose name is Gumption. Be sure to check out Gumption's very inspiring story and don't miss booking him for his tours and depth of knowledge. You will not be disappointed. Check out his Facebook page for more details.

Necker Island tour was a once in a lifetime experience, thanks to Matt and Casey arranging this with Gumption. Tortoises, Lemurs, an array of floral beauty, Pink Flamingos, white sandy beaches and examples of the good that Richard Branson has done for this world.

Prickly Pear Island stop was a wonderful shallow water beach for just lollygagging in the sea. There did not appear to be much re-built in early March, but the beach remains beautiful. The BVI Traveller has a great ongoing update on what's open or about to re-open.

Oh my gosh - Anegada - what an island paradise. We were treated to a wonderful beachside Lobsterfest and late night dancing at the Wonky Dog. The following day we toured up the shoreline to explore the Conch Mountains. In the afternoon we settled in at Cow Wreck Beach for a lazy afternoon of beach time, snorkelling and the delights of Anne's restaurant. We had a quick peek at the Anegada Beach Club - looks like a lot of fun too.

Unfortunately, we missed "The Baths" because of large swells that day, but everyone still raving about this natural attraction.

We moored at Cooper Island for lunch "onboard". News is that Cooper Island Beach Club has re-opened just recently.

Norman Island and Bight Bay made for a wonderful overnight and partial day visit. We hiked on Norman Island to experience some wonderful vistas. The Pirate's Bight restaurant and bar were open with usual food and drink delights.

After leaving Bight Bay we had an amazing snorkelling experience at Indian Rocks. A must do, if you are visiting Norman Island.

We moored as a "lone catamaran" near Ram Head. We then ventured in via dinghy to take in part of the Ram Head Trail experience near Salt Pond.

The other delight in this area of St. John Island is the "Drunk Bay" where you will find creations from those who have visited prior to you, and an opportunity to create your own signature of your visit on this stretch of rocky beach and coral remnants.

On our final full day of sailing, we stopped at "Booby Rock" for some spectacular snorkelling once again.

There were rare occasions when we left the catamaran for food and drink, due to the wonderful hospitality of Matt and Casey, however, they highly recommended a visit to Cruz Bay on St. John. We had a local beer at the  St. John Brewers' tap room. The true delight was up the Longboard Coastal Cantina in Cruz Bay where we enjoyed some refreshing cocktails and awesome appetizers.

Our final overnight mooring was along Honeymoon Beach in Caneel Bay at St. John Island.

With one final mooring and snorkel, we were treated to a spot just off Secret Harbour Beach resort in St. Thomas. A calm bay with wonderful snorkelling delights below. A fitting "last snorkel" for the group.

In Closing...

So there is just a quick snapshot of the wonderful heart and soul of the British and US Virgin Islands that we were able to enjoy in early 2018. I hope that I have demonstrated and assured readers that the Virgin Islands are truly open for business. Enjoy planning your vacation. Don't hesitate to reach out if I can be of assistance in answering any of your questions. Enjoy the sun and sea!  @FergDevins @TravelFerg

Matt and Casey - crew aboard the Island R&R 46 foot motor sailing catamaran

 


Spring

Spring into Opportunities of Spring

As February evaporates, literally as snow banks shrink and streams and rivers flow, I am reminded of what spring brings by way of opportunity. It is time to spring into the opportunities of spring.

Re-Align

It is a time to re-align and set the stage for the hunkering down in the new year. Doesn't it feel like New Year's eve just passed? How are those New Year's resolutions holding up? Time to get them planned and executed.

Get Away

For many, this might be a time of escape, rejuvenation, refresh, contemplation, study, renewal. Snowbirds from Canada are renowned for the mid-winter escapes to southern climates as a bit of a kick start and dream of the summer ahead. The mid-winter vacation is a great bridge to the March thaw that we long for after months of snow and sleet and ice. Universities and Colleges across the land take "break weeks" for study and reflection. Soon into March, primary and secondary schools will have their March break vacation time to bridge from winter to spring.

That Special Project

Spring also brings an opportunity to look ahead at our projects for the spring, summer, and fall. What projects around the house will need tending too? If you have a recreational property or recreational vehicle there will be maintenance and tune-up required to get things up to snuff for enjoyment in the months ahead. What vacation plans are you putting in place that you've always dreamed of and will land this year?

Re-Connect

It is also a time of year to re-connect with family and friends and put your social calendar together. Perhaps it is dinner in or out with those you have not seen for a while. Perhaps a longer-term plan for an extended visit to the city or town, or at the cottage/camp/or cabin this summer. By taking the time in the spring to plan your social calendar, you'll be sure to harvest great memories in the weeks and months ahead.

That Desired Contract

Spring is also a time to make plans on the work front. What projects are due for the peak season of summer? What job prospects might you be considering? For university and colleges students, the summer job market is never hotter than right now, at break time to sneak in the interviews and applications with prospective employers for the summer.

De-Clutter

Finally, (although I'm sure you could add a lot more to this short list), spring is a time for de-cluttering. The old term of "spring cleaning" allows us to chuck those items that have just been hanging around too long. As the snow melts, neighbourhood garage and backyard sales emerge. Remember, "one person's garbage is another person's treasure", will likely fetch you a few dollars for that item that has outlived its welcome in your household.

Here's wishing you and yours well as you consider how you might spring in the opportunities of spring. Wishing you wellness and good plans for happiness and fulfillment this spring. Cheers !

@fergdevins


Family Day in Most Parts of Canada

Family Day in Canada. Presidents Day south of our international border with the United States. Regardless of its name — a day when family can spend time together sharing the joy that is meant to be the energy and bond of family.

In parts of Canada, Family Day (French: Jour de la famille) is a statutory holiday occurring on a Monday in February. In the provinces of Alberta, Manitoba, Ontario, New Brunswick, Nova Scotia, Prince Edward Island (PEI) and Saskatchewan, it is observed on the third Monday of February; in the provinces of Manitoba, Nova Scotia and Prince Edward Island, the holiday is instead termed Louis Riel Day, Nova Scotia Heritage Day and Islander Day respectively. British Columbia (BC) observes Family Day on the second Monday of February. Two-thirds of Canadians live in a province that observes a February statutory holiday. Except in British Columbia, Family Day coincides with Presidents’ Day in the United States.

So what about this day? Other than the “wikipedia details” stated above it can be a day for any number of activities.

Some suggestions might include, a day for reflection, time with family and friends, a break from the winter blues, a holiday of sorts from your daily business undertakings, a travel opportunity, an extended vacation, a chance to re-charge, one morning to sleep in, a stroll in the park, a movie matinee, order food in, take food out, slide into a diner for brunch, clean out old photos, call a relative you haven’t heard from in a while, visit a senior in residence, a family curling get together, one more ski on the slopes, ice fishing, a walk along the harbour, yard maintenance as the snow banks shrink, catching up on social networks.

Whatever the activity you might undertake, I hope that it will include family. Our family unit is so important to our lifelong joy. I won’t deny that some families will experience hardships and despair. Hopefully, this family day is one where love, joy, hope and opportunity may flourish for you and yours.

Wishing one and all a happy family day. And for you British Columbians that celebrated last week, thanks for keeping the economy going today. Smiles.

@fergdevins


Choosing Your Words for #BellLetsTalk Day

#BellLetsTalkDay

This #BellLetsTalkDay is a great day for you to just listen a little more intently to the phrases and comments we make that have just become part of our language and lexicon.

Phrases and Words

I'm referring to those phrases and words that perhaps perpetuate the stigma or context of mental challenges.

I'm raising this in a light-hearted context, but concerning a serious matter. The matter is our concern and promotion of all things mental wellness, mental health, mental illness, mental stability, stable mindedness and the list goes on.

Some of those phrases that you might give a second thought to, as you reference them today and from this day forward. Let's be more sensitive and atuned to those words and those situations that may be more than what seems to be simply a character trait or on the surface matter.

Someone may actually need your help, assistance or empathy if they are facing or dealing with a mental health matter.

Here's a short list that comes to mind. You might have others to add.

"That's just crazy"

"Are you out of your mind"

"Are you nuts"

"Are your meds working"

"Are you off your meds..."

"Who do you think you are..."

"Wow a little schitzo"

"That's a downer"

"There's a dark cloud hanging over them"

"You look panicked"

"She / He is a maniac"

"Just the ups and downs of life"

"That is just psycho"

"They are disturbed"

"A few screws loose over there..."

"That's just insane"

"They are a little skiddish"

"They are a little odd"

"That seems a little loony to me"

Thanks for helping make a difference today and every day in promoting mental wellness.

#MentalWellness

I often refer to a statement I saw at St. Paul's Hospital in Vancouver - "If we take the I from Illness and make it a WE for wellness we move from Mental Illness to Mental Wellness". Let's not leave anyone alone.

@fergdevins