New Normal or Current Reality

New Normal or Current Reality

There is the persistent use of the phrase "new normal" that seems to be showing up everywhere. People seem to be grasping for a foundational moment where things settle into what will be a new normal.

Perhaps a better way to view the moment is by referring to it as a "current reality".

In the weeks since early March when we have gone from a context of the virus being out there, to the virus being right here - we have seen our realities shift from what was to what is. This is our current reality.

This weekend our current reality is that golf courses are open, but driving ranges are closed. Perhaps driving ranges will open in the coming weeks. That won't be the new normal, just actually what is a current reality at that time.

Some say that wearing masks at retail might become the new normal. Again, masks at retail or not will be a reality that we face, given the circumstances of the day.

I honestly feel that each day we wake up facing the new realities of the day. We are currently on a track of lessening up the restrictive living conditions of the past couple of months. The indicators and trends all point to lightening up of the constraints as we hopefully continue on the downside slope of the Covid-19 curve.

This reality could become a new reality if we are to suddenly see a spike in cases or re-occurrence around us.

The other fascinating reality is the differing circumstances between provinces, states and countries. Although there are similarities, there are certainly some very different approaches to the current reality. I suppose Sweden stands out as the most different from the rest of the countries around the world, yet their spread is now aligning with most other countries.

Current Realities We Face

So our current reality is an interesting mix of practices to protect us from each other and keep planking the curve. Things such as masks at retail, directional lanes at retail, gloves, plastic walls at retail check out, Lysol wipes handy, hand sanitizer surrounds us, take out meals only at restaurants, six-foot/two-metre distancing, limited groups gathering other than immediate household, avoid those not in your household.

The current reality requires practices in our day to day lives to keep us, our loved ones, friends and community safe. The future reality will bring with it, evolving practices. At some point, it might seem like normal, but for now, we will just have to deal with it as the current reality.

Be well - Stay Safe - Wash Hands - Keep the Distance

@FergDevins


This New Normal we are about to experience

This new normal we are about to experience will come with new approaches to our day to day lives.

Do you find yourself washing your hands more often? Has hand sanitizer crept into several convenient locations in your home? Do you find yourself religiously keeping the distance when you leave your home? Will we ever feel comfortable tossing a ball or throwing a frisbee? When was the last time you hugged someone outside of your household? Groceries unloaded and wiped down with Lysol wipes before entering the home? How do you open doors in public places? Stocked up on rubber gloves? Is our homemade facial mask near your car keys? What essential items have you loaded into your pantry? Do you find yourself snacking more? What culinary delights have you explored? Are some of you cooking more than you used to,  mixing it up in the household? Have next fall or winter travel plans and dreams been put on hold? How about those few bucket list items you were planning to explore? Did it take a little longer to get those summer tires back on this spring? Have you chosen your take out night for dinner, or embraced #takeout Wednesdays? Have you noticed the "one-way" lanes emerging in essential retail outlets? Noticing six foot markers emerging everywhere? Are you now subscribed to more social networks than previously? Have you learned to use more than one video conferencing platform like ZOOM, GoToMeeting, JoinMe, BlueJeans  or Google Meet? (my personal preference is ZOOM)

Those are just a few of the queries that pop to mind when I think of "new normal".

However, our practices here in Canada seem to have helped to flatten the curve.

The challenge will be the gradual return to "new normal", while maintaining a lot of these critical practices that we have come to learn in the past two months.

Here's wishing everyone good health. Let's continue to keep the distance and be diligent in our day to day activities. I attach this ad from Israel that reminds us of how easy the spread can travel in public.  https://youtu.be/xgJcbkdHAHA

Let's stay the course and listen to our health care and elected officials.

@FergDevins


How's that New Year Resolution going?

How's that new year resolution going?

So it is still very early in the new year. In fact just a few days in. Are you still on track with that new year's resolution list?

We can sometimes get a little antsy about the promises we made to ourselves for the new year. There might be even more pressure if that new year resolution actually impacted more than just you and your plan for the year. You spoke those words, now you need the plan for action.

Mine are pretty straight forward. And, my plan for action is underway. Eating more healthfully (RedLeaf fitness "turn a new leaf" food program for six weeks starting soon) - Fitness Plan (3 times a week at RedLeaf fitness with trainer Kristen Turner...if not training then attending a class) - Monitoring food (just simply getting back to eating healthy, smaller portions, less fat, cut back on the wings, on the wagon...at least until vacation time...smiles) - Walking 10,000 steps a day (that's the goal, have Health tracker on the Iphone and pacer app as well) - Social Network / email subscription purge (time to reduce social profiles, more focused, more planful). You will see I've not just spoken the words - I've planned some action.

With all of the positive words, phrases, thoughts for 2020 - you might have some fun with this word art tool below. If nothing else it might give you some inspiration in your workspace.

Have some fun and create some word art with some of the thoughts that are on your mind for your world in 2020:

When you look at your list you will find different magnitudes of thought and interest. Some of the thoughts might have a significant consequence, some of them minor, some of them are things that should just get done.  On a lighter scale, some are perhaps wishful thoughts.

Commitment

None of it will get done, without a commitment to do and action to follow.

Furthermore, whatever it is that you/we/ I want to get done - it doesn't just magically happen because someone decided to make it happen for us. We have the power to take the action and get on with the doing. As I often say "Your Day is only as good as YOU make it".

Three Resources To Consider

I've always been a big fan of Chris Brogan and Rob Hatch at owner.org. Chris always kicks off the year with the practice of defining his three words. It is a powerful way to focus on three contextual words that can set up goals and your purpose for the year ahead. What's really important here is that they set a context for action. They are not necessarily initiatives unto themselves. They set a context to shift the mindset to help you get focussed on who and what you need to be to get things moving in a direction. That direction might be a continued direction or a new direction or perhaps a level above last year's direction. The important factor, in my opinion, is that they are foundational. They lay a foundation for the rest of the year. Chris and Rob have ongoing webinars and a slew of resources for personal and business development needs.

The other person that I have been watching, following and now engaged with, in a year-long program, is Benjamin Hardy. Benjamin has his PHD in Industrial and Organizational Psychology and has created the AMP x10 program for 2020/21. It is truly awesome. For 2019 Ben took his program to a new level in creating AMP 2019 - Accelerate Momentum Program. This new AMP 10x really looks like it will be an exciting program to follow this year. I've signed up again - I find his work very inspiring. It is a weekly coaching session that drops into your email with resource recommendations, readings and occasional homework. Benjamin offers lots of coaching, support, and tools to keep you on track over the 52 weeks of 2019. There are also lots of groups created so that you share in insights, learning, and conversation about how your year is progressing. The Facebook group brings people from around the world together in conversations of possibility. Benjamin also writes some very inspiring and helpful posts at Medium. He's one of the leading writers in that space and his clear thinking and suggestions for success are wonderfully inspiring.

The third resource that I am putting in play again this year is a return to the Social Media Marketing World Summit in San Diego - March 1-3, 2020. This gathering of social media and digital marketers from around the globe is a wonderful networking and learning opportunity for any communicator. The tools, tips, resources, conversations, discovery are just purely over the top. If you are looking for some personal development in the area of social media marketing - I highly recommend that you attend. I will see you there. You can find out more about #SMMW2020 at this link - check it out!

Structured Support

So don't despair. Find your support network and system that you need to fulfil on success this year and for years to come. It might be a friend that you meet for coffee each week, your spouse, your children, your extended family or a mentor and coach. Perhaps your team at work needs to have a morning or afternoon workshop to determine "what's important and how are we going to get it done".For you personally, it can also be various personal support systems. Fitness - A Trainer, Diet - "Lose It App", "NOOM", Social Media Knowledge - Social Media Examiner, Finances -  Freshbooks, and the list goes on.

Like the famous weight loss coach for men Harvey Brooker used to say, "If you could have done it alone, you would have done it already (R.I.P.)".

Take Action NOW

Importantly, don't let another month slide by and still be sitting at the current place with respect to fulfilling your plan for the new year. Take action today. Map it out, write it down, plan milestones, make commitments, journal it, envision it, calendarize it. As Benjamin Hardy would suggest - decide who you need "to be" to make that happen.

Wishing you a Great 2020

Finally, when you question yourself about how that new year resolution is going, what response would you like to have for yourself? By setting your goals, with a plan for action, your year will be as good as you want to make it. Let's do this!

Wishing you much happiness, peace, joy, and harmony in 2020. Cheers!

@fergdevins


see you next year

Hello New Year

Hello New Year!

That fun and often chosen phrase one hears, during the last two weeks of December. It is kind of fun to mention "see you next year" to a friend or family member and see them triggered to second guess your farewell. Naturally "next year" is but weeks or days ahead. On this chilly January 01, it has arrived!

Neil Pasricha points to this saying as one of those awesome moments of New Year's Eve when people shout out this greeting, hours or moments before the clock strikes midnight.

Perhaps today seems like just another day. Perhaps today seems like it is just a continuation of what has already taken place this week. Perhaps today is no different than what was yesterday. Perhaps the new year means little beyond a change in the calendar.

I would like to think that today is actually day one of a new year.  A new year with greater possibility. A new year that could be one of greater joy. A new year that could be one of greater peace. A new year that could be one of greater healthfulness. A new year that could bring more happiness and harmony. A new year that could bring a breakthrough in health research. A new year that could bring the family together on more occasions. A new year that could bring greater charitable efforts and goodwill to our communities. A new year that can just be better than the past year, in whatever way we decide to make that change for the better. A new year where we all just work a little harder at harmonizing our thinking and resolving our differences.

As I look forward to seeing you in this new year, I look forward to what the new year might bring to the realm of possibility. As I often say, "our day is as good as we choose to make it". May the new year be one of great possibility and opportunity for you and yours by making those choices that will make it so.

Happy New Year!

@fergdevins


Christmas music

When the Christmas Tunes stop playing on the radio

...are your passengers demanding another station yet?

This season is truly one of the most wonderful times of the year. Christmas tunes start to appear as a constant track of music on many stations on or around the date of American Thanksgiving.

Some stations are even reported to start playing Christmas music non-stop on November 01, right after Halloween. By the time boxing day rolls around, it is almost a relief when they finally stop playing Christmas songs on the radio. There are lots of variations of our favourite tunes. However, there seems to be that relief following Christmas Day when the stations with the holiday music revert back to top tunes of the day.

Sirius/XM Canada have a few different options for holiday music listening. Some come to an end with boxing day, while others will remain on track until December 30th.

In Neil Pasricha's "The Book of (Holiday) Awesome", he refers to this as an "awesome" moment, "Because at some point we all stop caring what Bing Crosby is dreaming about".

Regardless, there is truly something special about the wonderful tried and true tunes of Christmas, as well as the new versions and recordings of present-day artists. One of note this year is the wonderful work by Gentri Music. It reminds us of the holiday joy that we experience through the singing of Christmas tunes during the holiday season at Christmas. These lads have done some masterful work, and some amazing holiday videos as well.

Here's to your listening pleasure this holiday season and all year round.


Warm up by the fire

Warm up by the fire

Whether wood burning or gas lit - something special about the sparkle of a winter’s fire

The Christmas holiday season makes for the perfect time to be in the great outdoors. And once you are back in from the cold and play, the perfect opportunity awaits for you to warm up by the fire.

In Neil Pasricha’s “The Book of (Holiday) Awesome” he talks about the awesomeness of staring into the fire.

Truly there is something special when you light up the fire after returning from a winter wonderland walk, toboggan run, snow board, skate on the pond, snow mobile ride or walk around the park with the dog.

Having a chance to warm up by the fire is not only a great way to shed yourself of winter cold, but a great way to connect with family and friends to reminisce about the year that has passed.

Of course many of the traditional fires have been replaced by gas inserts. Nonetheless, the warmth and joy of a fire mid winter is still a pretty awesome moment during the holidays. Throw another log on the fire.

Wishing you much warmth and happiness this holiday season.

@fergdevins


Christmas tree lights

When the Christmas Tree is the Only Light

How many lights does it take to create your desired glow?

Presents are wrapped, baking is complete, plans are made for the holidays, kids are either in bed or on their own playing, the tv is off, the iPad is closed, the iPhone is silenced and it is time. It is time to turn off all the lights and experience that special moment when the Christmas Tree is the only light on in your home.

The tree simply glistens. With it comes memories of years gone by with family and friends. Dreams of cold winter nights with a fire burning, a hot tottie in hand and a fresh piece of shortbread.

When the Christmas tree is the only light on in the home, you can almost hear the angels singing your favorite carols in your mind. The pine scent is filling the room and ornaments twinkle in the lights.

In  Neil Pasricha's "The Book of (Holiday) Awesome", this is one of this moments that he captures as awesome. It is truly awesome. Peace, harmony, light and just simply a moment of silence reflecting with your own little Christmas creation - your Christmas tree.

Wishing you this moment for you and loved ones this Christmas. Just take that moment to dim or turn off the lights and let your tree shine brightly.

@fergdevins


Outdoor Christmas Lights

Driving to see the Christmas Lights

Old fashioned or new LED - it is still a wonderful spectacle this time of year

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas. Everywhere you go. With just a couple of days left to Christmas, it is a perfect time to be out driving to see the Christmas lights.

This is truly one of those awesome moments of the holiday season, as mentioned by Neil Pasricha in his "The Book of (Holiday Awesome)".

Do you remember growing up in your small town or community and having mom and dad shout out the special plan for the evening? "Tonight we are going to drive around town and look at all the lights". Oh my gosh, those were special moments. In many instances, we would pack a snack bag with a mandarin orange and a couple of shortbread cookies for the road. Often times we would jump into our pajamas, bring a quilt for our laps and strike out on a tour of the town to see the lights.

We would venture out to new parts of town, ending up at the tree located at Main and Second in the center of town in Kenora. The town/city tree is still erected each year in Kenora. I am sure that this is a mighty tradition in your local community as well.

Over the years the transition from traditional lights to LED's and the proliferation of Christmas and seasonal infltables has transformed the Christmas light tours across the nation.

Wishing you and enjoyable drive to the the Christmas lights in your neighbourhood, city, town, village or countryside this holiday season.

@fergdevins


wrapping paper lines up

When the wrapping paper lines up

One of those “aha” awesome moments of the Christmas season

Sometimes the awesome moments during the holidays are small achievements. Do you ever catch your self in a moment of joy, or upset and realize what is causing your emotion is actually quite trivial in nature? In the ramp up to Christmas, one of those trivial moments could be that moment when the wrapping paper lines up, or doesn't.

You've selected the most amazing pattern to wrap your gifts. Upon wrapping you realize that the pattern won't line up. Well, with a little bit of maneuvering it will likely line up, but it adds a little planning and strategy to the simple task of wrapping.

When the wrapping paper lines up, you have a moment of joy. There is a sense of accomplishment. You might even lay a high five or bump to one of your family members nearby.

As Neil Pasricha points out in his "The Book of (Holiday) Awesome", wrapping is serious. However, let's not get caught up in these trivial moments of highs and lows of the season. Let us seek out our joy in not only when the wrapping paper lines up but some of those other moments of joy the holidays season brings:

  • When the lights all turn on when you plug them in the first time.
  • The beer in the fridge is still fresh.
  • Every seasonal apparatus working on batteries is still working from last year.
  • Your outdoor ornaments survived the summer shed storage.
  • Flights all arrive on time with family members returning home for the holidays.
  • Son or daughter's "last exam" isn't Christmas eve morning.
  • You remembered to put gas in the snow blower when you got dumped on Christmas morning.
  • Your Christmas paper napkins are in good supply.
  • Your wifi is capable of handling of your visitors of the season.
  • You remembered to PVR that new holiday tv special the night you were out for dinner.
  • You have enough kindling prepared for the increase in fires during the holidays.
  • Your BBQ tank is full, and a spare on hand.
  • Your hot water tank is in good working order, for added guests.
  • You remembered to re-print the holiday carols.
  • Your remembered your family member who is a vegetarian with an option for Christmas dinner.

May your holidays be happy and bright and may all of your Christmas's be white.

@fergdevins


Radio City Music Hall

Radio City Rockettes at Christmas in New York

Each community has their spectacular Christmas showpiece - and the Rockettes Christmas is certainly one to behold in Manhattan, New York

The Radio City Rockettes Christmas show is a wonderful holiday treasure in New York City. Ah NYC and the magic of Christmas. Truly something special.

Walking New York streets there is the constant sound of Christmas carols from shops and vendors. When you think of all the "Christmas tunes" this time of year, one can only imagine those early days in the streets of New York with stars of the day like Bing Crosby, Andy Williams, Tony Bennett, Dean Martin, Frank Sinatra, Barbara Streisand, Johnny Mathas, Aretha Franklin and the Carpenters (to name just a few).  Click forward to such present-day delights and performances by Gwen Stefani, Michael Buble, Sam Smith, Pentatonix and The Tenors as they carry on the tradition of wonderful Christmas music.

The famous Radio City Rockettes Christmas Show has reigned over New York City since December of 1933 . We were able to take in this awesome event on a recent getaway to New York City. We had attended the show before. It was so wonderful to see all of the enhancements that have made the show so current, in technology and visual effects. Naturally, Santa, The Rockettes, and the story of the Baby Jesus are core to the performance. The three-dimensional filmography is a wonderful start early in the show. It is just so much fun to see the kids in the audience reaching out to try and catch presents falling from Santa's sleigh, as he flies over Manhattan.

Although the Radio City Rockettes Christmas show is a crown jewel in Christmas performances, many such holiday spectacles take place in communities across North America and around the world. There are countless celebrations and performances bringing joy to family and friends with local traditions of Christmas pageants and events. This is in addition to the Sunday programming at churches and parishes as we approach Christmas eve checking off each day on the advent calendar. In Toronto, there are lots to choose from as well. No doubt your community has a similar list - just google "Christmas even services in your community".

Be sure to share a link to your favourite Christmas celebration. I'd love to hear your special little awesome celebration that you and your family enjoy this special time of year.

Just ten more posts of "awesome" inspired by Neil Pasricha's "The Book of (Holiday) Awesome" this season. Wishing everyone much joy this season.

@fergdevins